Februar 21

Max – Markus Dittrich

Ende der 80er Jahre:
Nick Rotweiler führt ein eher langweiliges Leben als Dorfpolizist im Norden Deutschlands. Dies ändert sich schlagartig, als er zusammen mit seinem Kollegen die aus der psychiatrischen Anstalt entlaufene Max einfangen soll. Max ist schön, sinnlich und einfach durchgeknallt. Zwischen den beiden entbrennt ziemlich schnell eine heftige Liebe mit wildem Sex und schließlich brennen beide durch um in Spanien ein neues Leben zu beginnen. Gejagt von der Polizei beginnt nun eine atemlose, verrückte und sexuell sehr aktive Flucht durch halb Europa.

“Max” ist vieles: rotzig, frech und verrückt – aber ganz bestimmt nicht normal. Markus Dittrich erzählt in seinem Roman in einer sexuell sehr aufgeladenen Atmosphäre einen Roadtrip der etwas anderen Art. Auch als Selfpublisher beherrscht der Autor es die Geschichte geschickt zu verweben, den Charakteren eine gewisse Tiefe zu verleihen und einen Spannungsbogen aufzubauen. In einer etwas gewöhnungsbedürftigen, schnodderigen Art wird die Story erzählt.

Ich habe die erste herausgegebene Fassung des Buches gelesen, die leider noch rechtschreibfehlerbehaftet ist. Der Autor versicherte mir jedoch, dass dies mittlerweile überarbeitet wurde. Was mich beim Lesen jedoch etwas gestört hat ist die fehlende Kennzeichnung der wörtlichen Rede, aber das ist Geschmackssache.

Zudem war das Buch einfach nicht meins. Manche Abläufe bzw. Hintergründe der Figuren erschienen mir unplausibel und unrealistisch. Nick Rotweiler als Beispiel ist Ende Zwanzig, Polizist und hat eine Vergangenheit hinter sich, nach der meiner Meinung nach niemand mehr in diesen Berufszweig einsteigen kann – auch nicht durch familiäre Bande. Zudem wird die Polizei hier generell recht einfallspinselig geschrieben und das halte ich dann doch für unwahrscheinlich, was diese Institution in ihrer Gesamtheit angeht.
Die Beschreibung der psychiatrischen Anstalt ist auch fragwürdig, jedenfalls was die Unterbringung und Bewachung der Patienten angeht.
Es gibt für mich viele solcher Stellen, die den Lesegenuss geschmälert haben. Zudem ist für mich der beschriebene Sex zwar nicht unbedingt krass und heftig gewesen, dennoch zu massiv vertreten. Das ist aber Geschmackssache, viele mögen es ja gerne schwitzig, lüstern und versaut in Büchern.

Die Geschichte an sich ist ganz gut geraten, der Autor versteht es einen flüssigen Handlungsstrang zu verfassen, seine Charaktere nicht oberflächlich und stereotypisch erscheinen zu lassen und eine Geschichte zu verwerben. Trotzdem konnte sie mich nicht überzeugen.

“Max” von Markus Dittrich, Selfpublisher, 372 Seiten, ISBN-13: 978-1492346296

Buch bei amazon.de: Max


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Posted 21. Februar 2014 by Chrissie in category Buchrezension

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